I M catching my children being good, not just catching them being wrong.

Wisdom

A child who only hears from you when he messes up learns that your attention is a punishment. Notice the quiet good, the kindness no one asked for, the effort that failed anyway. What you pay attention to is what grows.

Carry It

Catch a child doing one right thing today and name it, specifically, before you correct a single wrong one.

Ask Yourself

Does your child hear from you more when they are good, or only when they are bad?