I M asking what this is making of me, not just why it happened to me.

Wisdom

Why me is a question with no useful answer, a door that opens onto a wall. What is this making of me turns the same suffering into an apprenticeship. The event may not have a reason, but you can still make it have a result.

Carry It

Take one hard thing today and trade the question why me for the question what could this make of me, then answer it with an action.

Ask Yourself

How much time have you spent asking why this happened instead of what it could make you?